Worship Is a Conversation…So, When Do We Shut Up and Listen?


listenOur worship actions in any audible form can mute the voice of God sometimes only detected in the silence. In doing so, we can miss his healing, comforting, and encouraging words of hope such as “I am with you; well done; you are forgiven; and I am weeping with you.”

Worship is a dialogue or conversation between God and his people. God initiates that conversation and we respond to it. So, worship requires not only speaking and singing as a response but also listening and hearing as a response. The noise of our worship actions can create monological instead of dialogical worship. In other words, offering one-sided worship sound can monopolize the conversation, potentially causing us to miss hearing the voice of God.

A healthy conversation includes a balance of listening as well as speaking. Gary Furr and Milburn Price wrote, “In the drama of the Christian life, worship may be thought of as the script through which the author of us all calls forth and responds to the deepest and most important longings in us.”[1] So, until we occasionally shut up and listen, how can we hear that call?

God’s revelation occurs when he offers us a glimpse of his activity, his will, and his attributes. Our response is the sometimes spontaneous and sometimes premeditated reply to that call…worship. But we can miss his activity, will, and attributes if we monopolize the conversation by filling our worship with responsive noise only.

Richard Foster wrote, “Silence frees us from the need to control others. One reason we can hardly bear to remain silent is that it makes us feel so helpless. We are accustomed to relying on words to manage and control others. A frantic stream of words flows from us in an attempt to straighten others out. We want so desperately for them to agree with us, to see things our way. We evaluate people, judge people, condemn people. We devour people with our words. Silence is one of the deepest spiritual disciplines simply because it puts the stopper on that.”[2]

Since God began the conversation and graciously invited us to join Him in it, our worship then could be enhanced when we stop making so much noise. In order to listen again to his side of the conversation, maybe we should concur with Samuel when he said, “Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening” (1 Samuel 3:8).

[1]Gary A. Furr and Milburn Price, The Dialogue of Worship: Creating Space for Revelation and Response (Macon: Smyth & Helwys, 1998), 90.

[2] Richard J. Foster, Freedom of Simplicity: Finding Harmony in a Complex World (New York: HarperOne, 2005), 68.

Some of the above post is an excerpt from my new book, Better Sundays Begin on Monday: 52 Exercises for Evaluating Weekly Worship, Copyright ©2020 by Abingdon Press. Print and E-Version copies are available at: Amazon, Barnes & Noble, GoodreadsBooks A MillionCokesbury, and Christian Book.


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